Monday, December 26, 2011
Christmas Eve 2011
Sunday, December 18, 2011
Summer Memories
Saturday, December 10, 2011
Great Night
This night we started off practicing Michael Jackson moves because....well, because we just can't seem to stop doing that. We aren't very good at it; can't get synchronized no matter how how we try; have no outlet for this spectacular production we are working out in our heads and spend most of our time laughing too hard to be taken seriously anyway. But for some reason we don't give it up. We never admit we can't do it. And we never stop enjoying those practice sessions. They are awesome and so are we!!
Really Big Squash
All summer I checked the progress of this squash every time I walked by that end of the field. I wondered what kind of squash it was. I wondered if maybe they were gourds. I wondered why they only planted a small amount. I wondered who owned the field. And I wondered what they were going to do with the giant squash.
At the end of the growing season that squash still sat there. It was huge and it just continued to sit there. The rest of the field was harvested and still that squashy end remained there on it's own. I watched to see what would happen next. And I waited....and waited....and waited.
Until one day I walked by and I was shocked to see that the squash had been plowed under! That beautiful huge squash...that could have used by local shelters...that could have been fed to farm animals...wasted!! Why??
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Remembering December 8, 1980
December 8, 1980 we lost John Lennon.
I remember the day well which is a rare event for me. I was 4 months pregnant with my first child, my daughter Sara. I remember going outside that winter day to see some strange man painting huge letters on the town garage that was kitty corner to my parents house. I didn't know who this man was or why he was defacing the barn but I remember being angry that he was doing it. I called the police and let them handle it.
Meanwhile after going back inside I heard on the news that John Lennon had been killed...shot to death. I was shocked and very upset. I didn't know what to do with myself so I grabbed a coat and went back outside. I stared at that barn for a long time. In huge red letters it said 'This is for you John...'. Now I felt bad for having called the police and gotten that man in trouble. Now I understood.
Later that week I found out the man was a boyfriend (Ray)of a friend of mine. He got community service for writing on the barn and he was supposed to also paint over what he had written. I don't know if he ever did his community service but I do know he came back and finished what he had started. The barn now read:
'This is for you John. Give peace a chance.'
Ray never painted over that message and no one ever tried to make him. That message remained on the barn until it was torn down many many years later. It became our own tribute to John Lennon.
I don't regret calling the police on Ray. The only thing I ever knew him to do right was to write that message on that barn. December 8, 1980 we lost John Lennon and the whole world cried for him.
Thanks, Ray.
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
I Have An Itis
It started as a sneeze or two,
and a tissue here and there
It came with just a tiny cough,
and still I didn't care
It grew and grew as time went on
and then became a wheezing
Each breath I took with some concern
felt very hellish teasing
And now it hurts my throat and chest
with chills and hacking cough
and rumbles through my head all day
almost takes my head right off
I finally go to see the doctor
he gave me orange pills
he says I have an 'itis'
and it comes with those damn chills!
So with the meds and plenty of rest
some fluids to help me fight this
he says I'll soon be feeling better
and be rid of this bronchitis! :)
Impostors
So for now I'll post these pictures of church chickens/guinea hens because I'm sure I won't be seeing any sidewalk chickens until next year. I can't speak for the guinea hens (because they obviously have a mind of their own) but most chickens tend to stick closer to home during the winter months.
But come spring time and through the summer I'll still be on the look out for those sidewalk chickens!
Saturday, December 3, 2011
Pheasants
Saturday, November 26, 2011
Limbs Be Gone
I was SO glad to see these guys (whoops...one was a woman) show up to take my tree debris away! I was a bit mesmerized by this crane type thing too. I've never seen one that could move quite like that. It really moves like an actual hand. I felt like a little kid watching them. I like watching heavy machinery...is that weird? :)
Thursday, November 24, 2011
Say Good-bye Bones
Reprieve for the Turkey
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Memory of Dad - 3
Check Yea Weapons At The Door
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Instead of Halloween...
I never for one minute thought Halloween would be snowed out. I never for even a second thought this snow was going to be anything more than just too early for my liking. Consequently I didn't fill my car with gas the night before. I didn't stock up on batteries; milk; bread; candles and all the various sundries that are standard stocking items for all predicted storms these days. I didn't do anything other than put my car in the garage for the night and take in most of the lawn items that need to come in before winter. I really had no clue that Mother Nature was about to wallop us like she did. What a meanie she turned out to be!
The next 5 days and nights turned out to be a scramble for candles; flashlights; batteries; and above all heat! First the snow had to be cleared away from steps; walk ways and driveway. But the mass of destroyed trees and downed power lines turned that ordinary winter chore into a nightmare. My yard was full of tree limbs and branches...mostly belonging to my neighbors. I shouldn't have been surprised by this because we'd spent the night of the storm listening to the constantly cracking of the trees outside and hoping nothing fell on my house. In that respect I was lucky. My one large tree in the front yard took a beating but it was still standing. The one tree in the back only lost one dead limb.
The girls (my dogs) were overly excited about the new snow..even though they were shivering with the cold. They turned into very large puppies and were bounding from one snow pile to the next. I had to almost drag them back into the house.
I had put my car into the garage the night before mainly because it's old and rain will sometimes get into the back causing that unpleasant musty smell. I baby that car to keep it going as long as possible. I didn't have any immediate need to leave the house because there was no work to go to and the roads were for the most part impassible. So it was over a day later that I had the sudden realization that my garage door is electric and how the hell was I going to get my car out? Luckily my boss told me there had to be a release mechanism there somewhere to bypass the lock. I found it eventually and was much relieved but that opened up new problems because as I stated earlier, I didn't fill my tank with gas before the storm. Gas was hard to come by due to the gas stations not having power. All the gas in the world won't be any help if you have no power to pump it. I lucked out and had gas delivered to me by a friend that was able to get out of state with one of my gas cans in tow. That problem was solved.
Next I had to get food stuffs that didn't need refrigeration and at least in theory could be cooked on the one little charcoal grill we had to use. Stop and Shop was opened under generator power and was selling nonperishable items. When I got there the place was swarming with people, there were no carriages and everything was in partial darkness. (there is something very creepy about being in a large store that is not fully lit...felt like something was going to jump out at you around every corner). I commandeered a carriage from a bewildered store employee after realizing I couldn't possibly get everything using a small basket. I think the survival mode was kicking in at this point. I needed that carriage; I took it. Sorry dude.
I ended up buying a lot of foods that I don't normally eat...mainly because I consider them crap. Oh well...desperate times call for desperate measures. Better to have a belly full of granola bars and soup than to have an empty belly.
Having obtained some of the basics I needed, I started to build a routine each day of starting the charcoal grill; waiting a lifetime for it to be hot enough to use; spending incredible amounts of time trying to make a cup of tea (only to have it lukewarm anyway or taste like charcoal); deciding what foods needed to be eaten first from the fridge and freezer; layering perishable items in a cooler with snow; handing out foods to friends and family that had generators so it wouldn't be wasted; rationing batteries and candles; clearing more tree debris each day; heating water to clean oneself as quickly and efficiently as possible (in a very cold room) and listening to endless automated phone messages from the town of Enfield. I quickly learned it is utterly exhausting to live this way. Not having the bare essentials of heat; hot water and electricity is demoralizing as well. The daily struggle at first was a challenge but quickly became a huge burden and eventually led to some level of depression and apathy. I began to wonder how the pioneers could have done it and realized although I could provide the basics for survival on my own it's the luxuries (like hot water and being warm) that make the difference in living well and just living. I am no pioneer woman!
Luckily for me a friend got power before me and I had a warm bed for two nights. I was even able to bring my dogs with me and they were grateful to be warm too. The first couple of days of playing in the snow dimmed considerably when they never got the chance to be warm. The poor dogs were shivering each morning despite my having loaded them up with bedding to sleep in and covering their pens with blankets as well. They just don't have the warm coats that a lot of other dogs have and I never considered buying them any 'doggy coats' for winter before. I was as ill equipped to keep them warm as I was to keep myself warm. So despite the fact they had to share an apartment with another dog they were as grateful as I was to have a warm place to sleep. As soon as they arrived they took over the available doggy bed; fashioned their bedding into a cozy sleeping spot and passed out..only waking for short bursts of play; potty calls and to enjoy the homemade treats I'd brought with me. They were as exhausted as I was.
The first night I stayed at my friends house I saw that power had been restored to part of my road. Unfortunately that power stopped literally two houses from mine. Nothing made me want to cry more than to see the line of street lights stop two houses from my house. I felt a mixture of hope and desperation seeing all the lights and I have to admit also anger. It's true you do start to form an attitude of 'me first' when desperation rears it's ugly head. I'd been hearing reports on the radio of people having violent and angry outbursts at gas stations; stores and on the roads. I understand that feeling now.
It was still another couple of days before power was restored to my house. I was heading back home to sleep in the cold again when I saw all the lights on in my house. Normally the waste of electricity would irritate me into scolding the culprit that had left the lights on. This time it was a welcome beacon in the desolate winter night. I was hooting and hollering and bouncing about in my car before I even pulled into the driveway. The dogs didn't understand what was going on but they started barking and bouncing around in the back as well. We had lights, we had heat and all would be well now. The house was still cold so the power hadn't been on long but it didn't matter anymore. I knew the nightmare was over.
It took days to clean up the mess created by living like that. Everything needed washing...and with HOT water instead of cold. Candles were stored away along with flashlights and extra blankets. And I've yet to get all the plastic bags of snow out of my freezer.( Hearing that little tip on the radio saved me from losing a lot of frozen meats.) It's amazing how well it worked to pack bags of snow in between and around the meats and veggies in my chest freezer. And that's just one thing I learned from this experience. From now on I'm going to have an emergency box to go to when the power is out. I'm stocking it with candles; flashlights (and a few batteries); blankets; plastic bags; camping equipment and such. I also will remember that I had less problems than some of my family members because I keep a little cash on hand for emergencies. My Dad taught me that. Everyone else around me had issues buying gas and food because the ATM machines didn't have power and they didn't have cash. I'm going to keep large bottles of water in my freezer going forward. It will help insulate the freezer and provide necessary water if we lose power. I was lucky in some respects. I was able to flush my toilets and I had running water because I'm on town water. People with wells weren't so lucky. I also had a working telephone because I never got rid of my land line and corded phones. Cordless phones and a lot of cell phones were useless. It pays not to be too dependent on technology and I came out ahead of the game because of my non-dependence. I've always made it a policy to not be too dependent on any technology or to at least have a back up plan in your head. I don't own a cell phone and you don't miss what you've never had.
Now that I was 're-electrified' I felt it was only right to take in others that didn't have power. Two of my son's friends moved in a couple of hours after I got power. An inflatable air mattress was employed along with blankets and hot food. Everyone was warm and happy and soon were sound asleep. My water heater decided to act up by spewing water all over the basement so I was up most of the night waiting for a repair guy and then trying to placate the nasty tempered fellow once he was here. In the end he made the repairs; told me a few stories about customers that have yelled at him; wrote me up my bill and departed. The house was warming up again and I was finally able to go to bed.
And during all this turmoil and recovery and all the days of creeping to work driving around and sometimes under scary trees laying on power lines and huge mounds of brush and tree limbs my thoughts kept sliding back to Halloween. This all started a couple of days before Halloween and so there was no Halloween. I still haven't packed away my costume boxes or deflated good old 'bones' the inflatable skeleton. He's sitting crumpled up with the loss of air, in a corner of the room still wearing the pirate costume I dressed him in and looking much the way I feel inside about missing Halloween this year. I didn't get a chance to wear my new costume or hand out candy but I'll be primed for all the Halloween fun next year. We're sliding quickly into Thanksgiving now and I'm still feeling the loss of all that fun. I'm also feeling a little bit afraid of what we may have coming our way this winter.
So when I finally get around to getting the rest of the bags of snow out of my freezer and packing all my Halloween paraphernalia away I'll be sure to get that emergency box ready too. And I'll be keeping my fingers crossed and hoping that we have a very little bit of snow this winter.
Bones
Wednesday, October 26, 2011
Mullen Road
This dog really wanted to get in my car too. I realized he either was dumped from a car or horribly lost and thought I had come to take him home. Well I couldn't take him home with me. (but I sure was tempted!) So I pulled into someone's yard who just happen to be taking her dog out to potty before bed and we talked about the giant friendly dog. I explained about my dog hogging the back seat and not especially liking this gentle giant. (Allie was staring at me from the car the whole time...glaring at me really for even considering taking him home). Luckily for all concerned she was a dog lover too and he helped convince her by wagging all over and trying to play with her dog. Her dog wasn't much impressed either but at least he wasn't hostile. She took the dog in for the night and promised to call the dog warden in the morning. I was so relieved! I really had no idea what I was going to do with him but I knew I couldn't leave him on that dark road. I called the dog warden the next day and she had just called him herself. She was intending on keeping the dog if nobody claimed him. Nice ending for the big lug. I was very satisfied with that and I'm sure he was too!
Well I was on my favorite road again just the other day and saw a flock of wild turkeys milling around in one of the fields. I was greatly relieved that they weren't dive bombing my car this time. Judging by the casual way they so boldly took over this field and were wandering around in broad daylight I can only assume they have no idea how close we are to Thanksgiving.
Wednesday, October 12, 2011
Farm Pics
This big fella was really enjoying his mud bath!
One brave little girl turkey came to check me out.
The boys mostly walked around making a lot of noise.
This field started out with strawberries and was re-planted
with lettuce when the berries were played out.
Various odd veggies were always on display. Although the bird on the end
I just can't explain.
I don't have much liking for eggplant but I do like this one!
Monday, October 10, 2011
The Unexpected
I kept telling myself I just can't miss the trip; telling myself I can't leave with a mess like this going on at home; wishing it had happened on a different day; wishing it had happened to someone else entirely; wishing I could just go back to bed! But in the end I did what I normally would have done...the responsible thing. I stayed home, waved goodbye to my family as cheerfully as possible; told them to take lots of pictures and called an expert to handle the situation.
I had no idea who to call to begin with so I ended up slightly panicked wandering through the phone book. (does anyone ever even use a phone book anymore?) Roto-Rooter popped out at me with their two page ad claiming they don't charge for the initial visit and estimate; will come to your rescue on weekends, holidays and all hours of the day and night...free. Ok guys...you got my attention. I called and had someone there within a couple of hours. The estimate he gave me left no doubt about how it feels to be between a rock and hard place. I felt that rock in the pit of my stomach immediately. He looked a little sympathetic as he handed me the estimate; I just looked pathetic. They wanted $3100.00 for replacing all manner of stuff down there. I told him I needed to make a call before I signed anything.
I called Tony, my former landlord and a great friend. He was at my house before the Roto-Rooter guy had all his ducks in a row and was back on the phone asking me if I was going to go with them for the job or not. I told him no, I got a better deal and hung up the phone with a sigh of relief. As I type I have two men in my basement doing that same job for less than half what Roto-Rooter was quoting me. But none of this took place quite that easily.
Tony and I spent a little time yesterday making sure all the shut off valves were off and that the boiler was turned off as well. No hot water now baby! But we weren't done yet. That water heater had to be drained too because it was continually leaking hot water onto the basement floor...the basement that doesn't have a drain anywhere...can't have that going on! Luckily I had already taken in the garden hose for the season and it was neatly coiled in the corner. I pulled that out, Tony hooked it up to the water heater and then we proceeded to perform a most complex 3 Stooges routine using only us 2 stooges! I pulled the hose up through the house and out the door to drain on the lawn outside. I could feel hot water heating up the hose as I went. Three or four more times I had to bring the end back downstairs because the hose had become hopelessly twisted and knotted. Did I mention that the hose had been neatly coiled to begin with?
Eventually we actually got this feat of magic accomplished. The water heater was drained (for the most part) and now all that was left to do was wait for the guys on white horses to arrive and do the rest. That wasn't going to happen until the next day so I needed to keep myself busy and salvage what was left of my day. I also needed to keep busy so I didn't keep thinking about that Salem trip I was missing. I decided to bring the dogs outside and strip the rest of the garden down in preparation for winter.
The garden stripping went fairly smoothly. I only got one large scratch on my leg (very painful); smacked myself in the head with a bunch of tomato stakes, leaving clumps of dirt in my hair; and received one very hefty splinter in my finger. Oh yes, I was grace in motion out there.
The dogs passed their time by eating everything they found; having a barking contest with the little neighbor dog whom they can't see but could hear (they won); repeatedly digging holes in the lawn despite my constant direction to stop (thank you Bell); and mutilating random plants in the planter next to them. At that point dirt in my hair was the least of my concerns. I put Bell in the house for her attempts to reach China by way of my lawn, while I let Nicki stay outside chomping on a small cucumber I'd found hiding in the garden. Cucumbers can't hold a candle to dragging a large branch around a tree several times, so it wasn't long before she found herself firmly knotted up in her lead getting real cozy with said tree. (Nick you are a lovable idiot aren't you?). I took pity on her (standing there wagging her whole body pinned to the tree) and brought her in the house to play with Bell in a non-tree environment. I wondered vaguely if I'll ever be able to have them outside without these types of mishaps as I limped back outside shaking dirt from my hair and sucking my bleeding finger.
Life is back to normal now, better than normal really. I've got a brand new modern water heater in the basement (quite sleek and sexy looking I must say) and no more worries about what will go wrong during the long winter to come. There's hot water a flowing and a nice hot shower in my immediate future. And all I've got left to do is figure out how I'm going to clean up that water in the basement. Piece of cake, right?
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
The Big E - 2011
Baby pigs sleeping. So cute!
This llama was so bored he refused to look at anyone.
Baby chicks in the hatchery.
Really nice picture done on one of the giant pumpkins.
Bunny with the talking cow.
Me coming out of the hobbit house.
Plenty of hobbits at the fair this year!
We bought raw honey from the bee keepers.